The #1 Reason why people fail at caregiving…

Suzanne FiscelIa, PA-C, BCPA / January 4, 2021

caregiver guilt

The number one reason why caregivers consistently fail in their journey is because they don’t understand or want to understand the simplicity of dying .

This is a tough subject but unless we deal with it up front In our caregiving journey we will never come to grips with what caregiving is about.

There are five ways and only five ways that people die, and we let’s address them today because each and everyone of you will find yourself in one or more of these categories at any one time with your loved one.

We call these the 5DS

#1 the brain stops working well but the body continues to function. That’s called dementia

#2 the brain is just as sharp as a tack but the body starts to wear down. That’s called disability

#3 Your loved one has a disease or disorder that take their life. This is the 3rd D.

#4 You loved one has an accident that takes their life. This is called died too soon.

#5 Your loved one decides to die.

Once you understand this path, you are on your way to caregiver success.


Because you can prepare for each and every one of these.

You can get your plans in place ahead.

You won’t be caught off-guard.

You won’t be running to the emergency room.

You won’t be surprised.

You won’t be worried about the finances.

You won’t be exhausted.

This is part of the BEST® PRACTICES we use at Caregiver Haven™.  

We have the three secrets. Get the 3 secrets to stress-free caregiving

How is it that Carol Ann lives the life she loves with friends and family while taking care of her demanding elderly mom? 

How is it that Joanne is raising three small children by herself and taking care of her father when he had a stroke, never missed  a step in her own life?

How is it that Martha and her husband were nearing retirement when her husband was diagnosed with dementia and Martha still enjoys years of love and laughter while keeping her dreams of retirement alive?

Learn these three secrets these women know about caregiving…

Here at Caregiver Haven™ we call them THE 3 B’s

We call them the 3 B’s at Caregiver Haven™ and they will absolutely change the way you do caregiving

Caregiving is different for every single person so why do these three secrets work for everyone?

Because the caregiving is not about the person you’re taking care of.

It’s about you the person giving care!

You don’t have to get it perfect. You just have to get it going.

Get the Ultimate Caregiver’s Guide Toolkit today and let’s get you started.

If you really want to jump-start your caregiving, then join the Caregiver Haven Community today.

Share this on your social media platforms.

Posted in

Suzanne FiscelIa, PA-C, BCPA

I know exactly what it's like to feel like you just can't keep up. Working a full-time job, raising 3 children as a single mom, and taking care of her aging mother. But after feeling lost, overwhelmed, and guilty for spreading herself too thin, I saw all her patients and their caregivers going through the same thing. I learned how to put simple systems in place to keep my life free from distractions, find free time to do the things I wanted, and enjoy my family along the way. These simple step-by-step solutions have been shared with my patients, friends, and family. They too have found organization, confidence, peace, and freedom. Now we all live the life we love while caregiving! Come join us!

Hi I'm Suzanne

And my mission is to find you practical easy-to-follow solutions for everyday caregiving. Find out more HERE.

spiral bound book 150 x 150


Join the thousands of caregivers who want organization and tips straight to your inbox.